New year - Often the Turning Point for Divorce Decisions

For many, the holiday season is filled with joy and togetherness, but for others, it marks the final chapter of a struggling marriage. January consistently sees a   sharp rise in divorce filings. It seems every new year brings a sense of renewal—new goals, new routines, and for many, the difficult decision to start over. It’s no surprise that divorce filings spike in January, a phenomenon often called the “January Effect.” While every situation is unique, several common factors make January feel like the right time to act.

The Right Time to Act: Why January Feels Like the Best Time to File

Some spouses begin preparing months in advance, waiting for the right moment to take the next step. January often becomes that moment because:

• They didn’t want to disrupt the holidays—especially when children are involved.
• They needed extra time to gather financial information or line up housing.
• The start of a new year offers emotional momentum and a clean slate.

No-Fault Divorce: No Blame, No Guilt

If the thought of divorce feels overwhelming, understanding how Minnesota handles divorce can ease the pressure. Minnesota is a no-fault divorce state, meaning neither spouse has to prove wrongdoing. Simply stating that the marriage is irretrievably broken is enough.

A no-fault approach helps eliminate needless conflict and avoids drawn-out court battles. Couples can focus on moving forward rather than assigning blame.

Key Issues to Resolve in a Divorce

Even in a no-fault divorce, there are two major issues that must be addressed:

1. Child Custody

• Minnesota  courts favor joint custody in cases where domestic abuse is not an issue.
• The child’s best interest is the top priority—not the parents’ preferences.

2. Division of Assets

• Minnesota uses equitable distribution—assets are divided fairly, not necessarily equally.
• Full financial disclosure from both spouses is mandatory.
• Property acquired before marriage is generally protected, but anything earned during the marriage is considered for division.

Thinking About Divorce? Here’s What to Do Next

If January has made it clear that your marriage is coming to an end, taking the right steps early can make the process more manageable.

1. Consult a Family Law Attorney

A knowledgeable attorney can explain your rights, outline the divorce process, and help you prepare for issues involving children, finances, and property.

2. Gather Financial Documents

Organization is key. Collect tax returns, bank statements, retirement account information, loan documents, and records of shared debts to ensure a smoother process.

3. Evaluate Living Arrangements

Consider where each spouse will live during and after the divorce. Think about both short‑term needs and long‑term stability.

4. Protect Your Emotional Well‑Being

Lean on trusted support—friends, family, or professionals. Divorce is one of life’s biggest transitions, and emotional clarity will help you make better decisions.

Remember: Divorce is a process, not a single moment. With preparation, support, and the right guidance, many people find that this challenging chapter becomes the beginning of a healthier and more hopeful future.